INDIA: 60th ANNIVERSARY
Six decades after the British partitioned Pakistan from India, families broken by the border struggle to stay in touch
The Globe and Mail, Wednesday, August 15, 2007
SONYA FATAH
AMRITSAR, INDIA — For a long time after 1947, Karkar Singh’s mother and aunt sent news to each other through lovingly penned letters. Their homes were hardly 40 kilometres apart by road, but it would be four months, each time, before either received a response by mail. They kept writing, filling each other in on family news for 20 years, until the bonds began to weaken, the connection harder to sustain. Eventually, the letters stopped coming.
Mr. Singh’s mother lived in the village of Majhupura on the western edge of Indian Punjab, about 10 kilometres from the Pakistan border. His aunt and her husband, Karnal Singh, lived 30 kilometres inside what is Pakistan today.
Until 1947, when Pakistan was born, they lived close enough to visit regularly. But Karnal Singh, who worked as a driver at the Bata Shoe Factory, was reluctant to leave his job, his home and his land when the borders were drawn, cutting him off from his family on the other side.
The British exit from India, leaving behind two states – Hindu-dominated India and a Muslim Pakistan – sparked a mass migration of Hindus and Sikhs from Pakistan, and Muslims from India, separating thousands of families.
As the two countries celebrate 60 years of independence, some of these long-standing ties endure, despite the odds, to keep India and Pakistan connected.
Mr. Singh, 60, made three arduous journeys to Delhi before securing a visa to visit his aunt and cousins in Pakistan. Eventually, with the purpose of visiting Sikh religious sites, he booked a train to Pakistan.
“I didn’t feel any differences between us,” he says of the reunion with his relatives 12 years ago. “Our language is the same; our feelings for each other were very strong.” The only difference, he said, was of diet. In Muslim-dominated Pakistan, his cousins eat meat. But that, Mr. Singh says, wasn’t a problem. “They cooked separately for me.”
While it has been more than 30 years since the countries last went to war, deep hostilities and suspicions linger. Since India’s then-prime minister, Atal Bihari Vajpayee, made peace overtures to Pakistan in 2000, a sometimes-rocky progression has been made toward relaxing the draconian laws that prevent person-to-person interaction.
While there has been an increase in trade and traffic and a greater exchange of ideas, most has happened at a government level or among the upper class. For those of modest means, reaching out has been more difficult.
Gardeep Singh, 55, of Todi Bind, five kilometres from the border, has travelled to Pakistan to visit his maternal uncle, who, like him, is a farmer.
Born in India after partition, he has made every effort to maintain ties with his family on the other side.
“We’re all Punjabis. They are one of us. Even though my mother and my uncle passed away two years ago, my heart wants to keep the ties. There is no difference between us,” he says.
His brother, Vasan Singh, 60, has not been to Pakistan. “It’s too much of a hassle,” he says, citing the cost and burden of travelling to Delhi for a visa.
Theoretically, people could maintain contact through phone communication, which has become much more accessible in recent years. But calling Pakistan is not always a good idea.
Mr. Singh says police interrogated his nephew when he called family members in Pakistan after returning from a visit five years ago. “We don’t call because we don’t want to be harassed.”
Some say the reason for police supervision is linked to the significant illegal border trade that takes place. Indian liquor passes into Pakistani hands in exchange for heroin from Afghanistan and Pakistan.
Almost everyone in the border area knows someone who has been involved in the smuggling trade. India’s border security force has cracked down, but the black-market trade continues, people say, in part thanks to corrupt officials.
People here say their relatives in Pakistan struggle to get visas to visit.
“Our relatives from Pakistan just don’t get visas to visit Punjab,” says Pacho Kaur, 60, whose brother lives on the other side. “They’ve never been here, they’ve never met our families. We don’t know why.”
Ms. Kaur’s brother lives in Lahore, where he drives a horse-drawn carriage. She has visited him many times, but can only apply for a visa every 15 months.
“It feels like I’m in the Punjab when I’m there. It feels the same,” she said, echoing the feelings of almost everyone else with family across the border. “All his children showed me so much love, my heart stayed there with them.”
After 60 years, a patchwork of letters, photographs and occasional visits has kept a generation of separated families connected. But in these villages – distant from the innovations of the Internet and e-mail – it’s hard to imagine how much longer the connections can hold.
“We’re poor, we have no connections, so we can’t get across and we can’t get visas,” says Kartar Singh, who lives in a small concrete house with baked mud floors and earns 3,000 rupees ($80 Canadian) a month working in a fabric printing factory. “The rich bend all the rules and make it, but we, with our families across the border, are left struggling to connect the past and the present.”
His son, Divender Singh, 25, doesn’t know if that bond is tangible. “We don’t know our cousins. We don’t recognize their faces. When we can’t meet them or talk to them, they are, more or less, dead.”
United they began
1940: India’s Muslim League endorses the idea of a separate Muslim nation.
Early 1947: Britain says it will leave India no later than June, 1948.
Aug. 13, 1947: Sir Cyril Radcliffe submits his partition map, demarcating the hastily drawn border between India and Pakistan that in some places cut villages, and even individual houses, in two along what became known as the Radcliffe Line. Sir Cyril’s justification was that no matter what he did, people would suffer. The division was done in secret, and no Indians were allowed to review it, since disputes likely would have arisen and delayed the partition.
Aug. 15, 1947: At the stroke of midnight, the country of Pakistan comes into being as an independent, largely Muslim state with East and West provinces separated by more than 1,500 km of Indian land. At the same time, India gains its independence as a secular Hindu nation.
1947-48: Many Muslims and Hindus find themselves on the “wrong side” of the border, and as a result, an estimated 14.5 million people cross to the other side. Hundreds of thousands of other people die in widespread communal bloodshed.
1949: The Awami League is established to campaign for East Pakistan’s autonomy from West Pakistan.
1970: The Awami League, under Sheikh Mujib, wins an overwhelming election victory in East Pakistan. The government in West Pakistan refuses to recognize the election results, leading to rioting.
1971: Sheikh Mujib is arrested and taken to West Pakistan. In exile, Awami League leaders proclaim East Pakistan independent on March 26, leading to a civil war. About 10 million people flee to India as troops from West Pakistan are defeated with Indian assistance. The new country is called Bangladesh.
Sources: BBC, Reuters
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